A student preparing for IIT

Parents getting under lots of stress due to behaviour of their children when they are preparing for competitive exams are one of the most frequent cases that come to me.

This case will open our eyes on few important aspects which parents can use for their children when they are through this phase.

The common complaints from parents are:

1. Child keeps the door closed.
2. Child is not seriously preparing for exams.
3. Child is careless and seemingly not oriented in right direction.
4. Child is not behaving normally.
5. Child is constantly feeling that someone is working against them, someone is watching them, hearing some sounds, seeing some shadows etc.
6. Sudden crying or laughter or bouts of any one of or both of them.
7. Has withdrawn totally and is talking about ending life etc.

I will narrate a case in which a girl (let us name her Ms. Kumud) was brought to my hospital by her parents. Following my protocol, I first spoke to her parents separately and understood that Ms. Kumud is not behaving properly and in many situations, parents are seeing her as rebellious.

I called Ms. Kumud and understood her mindset and feelings. Kumud said that she is going through following difficulties:

1. Continuous nagging by parents and resultant growing irritation within.
2. Fear of failures first injected in her by parents and then now it is deeply rooted in her at subconscious level.
3. Fear of rejection if things don’t go her way finally.
4. All this had already triggered various other psychological disorders in her.

I understood that Kumud was actually a very good person and wanted to do well in her life. She was unable to handle her own emotions and hence was not able to maintain sound emotional health and sinking slowly. She had one more great old memory haunting her and that is when she went through a traumatic mental state when she failed in her 7^th grade exams and was even taken to a psychiatrist.

I did through brain mapping and after understanding and creating a firm commitment in her to come out of her difficulties, I took her through complete therapy of cell level healing.

She went through following:

1. Release of complete stress including resurfaced old negative memories by effective use of various psychological healing tools.
2. Powerful personalised Audios made a huge impact in her healing.
3. Systematic use of foundational level TRATAK helped her to regain her confidence.
4. Due to deep transformational impact she started getting from the very first session itself, she on her own initiative, will and wish opted to go through complete Capacity Building. I helped her rebuild her inner self brick by brick while handholding through the journey.
5. Within 4 months she was back fully energised.
6. I am really feeling blessed that God chose me to be a channel to heal her and give her a new fresh life.
7. Most importantly she took a firm decision that she will never ever shy in shouting for help during her entire life journey whenever she feels the first need and she will guide others too to take timely actions.

Here I would like to emphasise that the most important thing was parents also equally went through various new learning in their sessions with me and which helped them create their new way of looking at life and their daughter by redesigning their paradigms. They eventually became the greatest support in the healing and transformational journey of their daughter.

Ms. Kumud and parents took a conscious decision of taking one year break and devote one complete year afresh to prepare for IIT. I am happy to share that her dream has come true and she is now an IIT student. We have one session every quarter and she is rocking in her life. I pray for her continued wellbeing and success.

The learning from this case study is following:

1. The caretakers must learn the powerful art of positive motivation and parenting as soon as they become parents or even better earlier.
2. Never ignore the difficulties faced by your children and force guide them by telling them what is right and wrong without knowing what they are going through.
3. Don’t jump to conclusion that the child is always throwing tantrums.

Taking help without delay can ease the healing process and  the journey of healing can become much easier for all stakeholders.