This is a very important case which will help you to understand how an individual can kill happiness from own life. A lady walked into my Hospital’s Healing Center and after she got assurance about 100% confidentiality and total support she started talking about her married life. Let us give her a name “Asha” to understand the case.

Asha stated that she was in love with a person (Ashok) for seven years, and then finally she got married to Ashok. During these seven years of their courtship period, they had differences on many issues and also many events of misunderstanding and quarrels. Asha also stated that during this time her husband Ashok always compared her with other females. He even told her about his relationship with some other girls and in particular with a girl whom he loved for few years and is continuing to maintain relationship. Ashok always used to say that after their love did not work out, it is now just a friendship and only on few occasions they have been very intimate. Asha said that she used to feel irritated, frustrated and many times emotionally broken down, but with the passage of time, Asha got used to these things and learnt to ignore all negative factors and continued with Ashok.

Asha continued her story and said, after the marriage Ashok started taking care of her really well and he never allowed these issues to surface again. As the fate would have it, in one of the family parties her husband Ashok met his ex-girlfriend. In the party Ashok tried to speak to his ex-girlfriend, but that girl really insulted him and there was a big dirty drama in the family function.  Since Ashok was trying to talk to his ex, Asha started becoming very uncomfortable and all the old stories which her husband Ashok had shared with her during their courtship as a boyfriend started resurfacing in her mind. She started feeling highly restless from deep within as she started remembering how Ashok used to compare her with other girls. Asha also told me that when this party incident happened she was pregnant with her first child and now she is pregnant with the second child and also carrying unimaginable stress.

During Asha’s detailed psychological condition mapping and during the healing process, Asha narrated that during her first pregnancy also after the experience in party she had gone through nightmares and deep trauma. Many unexplained things happened and somehow, she completed her full term of pregnancy and delivered her first baby.

When Asha narrated her first pregnancy experience and her mental state during that time, it helped me to understand the deep mental trauma she is going through and associated sickness. I could understand the hormonal and psychological imbalances which are triggered in her body during pregnancy due to the trauma embedded in her subconscious mind.

Human brain is a highly complex construct. Asha’s thought process had become totally turbulent. Even for a second she was not able to experience love, peace and happiness within. Ashok was doing his best to keep her at peace and help her, but Asha was convinced in her imaginary world that her husband is in a relationship and he doesn’t love her anymore and he is going to desert her any day. Because of continuous traumatic experiences, eventually Ashok stopped living with her and Asha was sent to stay with her parents.

After analysing Asha’s mental state, I realised that there are multiple factors affecting her simultaneously leading to she reliving traumatic experiences. Her mental state was totally unstable.

Following clear symptoms and behaviour indicators were observed:

1. Uncontrolled hormonal changes due to extreme mental trauma. In reality not many experience such extreme hormonal imbalance at such a deep level. Only some are impacted to such an extent the way Asha was experiencing.
2. PTSD- Post Traumatic Stress Disorder triggered during family party.
3. Anxiety attacks due to loss of trust.
4. Fear of losing life partner.
5. Suicidal thoughts. Asha had already attempted few times.
6. Extreme anger leading to revenge mentality.

After detailed analysis which took a couple of sessions, I put her through a deep release and healing process which took 3 months. The healing process was online as well as offline.

I had invited family members also, and although with reluctance they came and after understanding the gravity of the situation, they promised to follow all the advises given to them. I’m very happy to share that using subconscious level audio healing tools, Tratak, Mirror Talks and Mind-Body healing involving many sessions, with complete support from family, Asha has successfully come out of her difficulties and she is leading a beautiful life after the birth of her 2^nd child. Her husband Ashok also underwent few sessions. Now Ashok is extremely happy and living with Asha. I am now convinced that both children will be able to grow in environment which is stress and conflict free. The parents promised to undergo sessions to continue their healing journey and also to learn positive parenting.

At the end I would like to emphasise that diseases and difficulties must be analysed without any delay. It is sad that people visit a mental health professional or a psychologist after they have gone through enough of trauma and the trauma has entered deeper level of subconscious mind. Every case confirms to me that things can be sorted out very comfortably when the professional help is sought without much delay. I thank Asha, her family and Ashok for keeping their 100% faith in me and following every advice sincerely.

Life is a beautiful gift. We all go through challenges but taking timely help with faith can save tons of miseries. May God bless one and all.